I’ve just been re-reading a very good book on planning, The 12-week Year by Brian Moran.
Brian’s premise is that we should focus on the next 12 weeks – not a whole year. He’s got other good ideas, such as organizing time by blocks.
What stopped me cold, though, was Brian’s diagram on page 72: the emotional cycle of change.
As a copywriter and content strategist, I rarely work with clients on their emotions. We talk about dealing with their clients’ emotions. I’m a big believer in working with life coaches and mindset coaches, but that’s not where my own expertise lies.
Brian has a chart that shows the emotions we go through when making a change.
Phase 1 – Uninformed Optimism: you’re excited at the idea but you don’t know what you’re getting into
Phase 2 – Informed Pessimism: you start to face the reality of what this change means
Phase 3: Frustration you don’t think you’ll ever get there: most people give up
Phase 4: Success and fulfillment: you reap the benefits of change so the behavior becomes self-reinforcing.
Clients typically call during the frustration stage. They’re trying new things but nothing seems to be working.
“Am I doing something wrong?” they ask.
Sometimes they’ve given in to despair prematurely. They’re a good fit and it’s just a matter of time. Other times, they haven’t matched themselves to their market or their marketing style. For instance, someone once advised me to build a business around “fabulous marketing.” That’s a great idea for someone who uses the Celebrity archetype of marketing … but it’s just not me.
So to the phases described by Brian Moran, I’d add a second step. Go through your initial excitement, but ask, “Is this something I’m committed to? Is there a good fit? Will the topic hold my interest for the next several months …maybe even years?”
You could even add a question, “Will the new market respond to someone like me?”
I once worked with a client who wanted to create social events for people in their twenties, to supplement the dating apps. As a social worker, she understood their needs. She knew several from her private practice.
But she had to ask herself, “Would clients relate to me in this way? Would they see me as a friendly big sister who’s helping them out…or as a distant older person who’s far removed from their lives?”
We didn’t know. She’d have to trying her new role on for size. Her early pessimism might be justified, but she might be throwing in the town too quickly (to mix a few metaphors).
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